Sunday, September 03, 2006

Engagement

I have now gotten engaged three times. The first time, was the necessary cultural engagement, with parents approval. Culturally it's inappropriate for a couple to go out together without that, and since we plan to live in this culture, we must follow it's rules. Our parents chatted and basically both gave their approval to our relationship. The second time was just three days ago when John proposed on a sailboat on the Nile. I must say the Nile provides an excellent stage for romance. That was our engagement, not for anyone else but us. The third time was last night at our Khotuba, or engagement party. It was almost a wedding in itself. I had the hair, the nails, the make-up done. Family and friends gathered. I was hidden from my fiance until he came to usher me into the party with everyone watching, including the professional videographer and photographer who was hired for the event. We exchanged rings. John's uncle did a special message and prayed over us. We ate lots of good Egyptian food. We toasted and fed each other wedding cake. It was quite an event. So now, after all that, I think I'm quite officially engaged. No questions about it. Who wants to help me plan the wedding?

3 comments:

Jeremy said...

Thats so awesome. I wish Americans still celebrated like that. Thats it. Its decided. Im going to have a few parties before the actualy wedding. haha. well congrats sarah. talk to you soon.

License to thrill said...

I want to help

0r4cl3 said...

Wow, I am so amazed and happy! Here I thought I would be talking to an old maid, and you're getting married before most of us! Congratulations Sarah, I wish you the best, and am quite happy for you!! *Mwa